Oh no....here we go!
BM finally called yesterday. She texted both sd's phones with a message along the lines of "this is mommy, call me right away, its important"! Mind you this is the first they knew of bm having a new cell because bm has not contacted the kids in a month at this point. Girls showed it to me and oldest said she was not calling bm back. Middle said she thinks she should and proceeded to call bm.
Well bm called to say one of their great grandparents passed away. Also said she wanted the kids to attend the services out of state, but she herself does not have the money for them to come. (Hinting probably for them to ask dh and I). Also told sd she has not seen them or called because she has been busy working a lot (which I know is a lie because I speak to her relatives whom have said she is not currently working). SD tried to get bm to commit to a day to see them and bm said that she will let them know when she has a day off work (again with the lies!).