My husband had custody of his two girls when we met and his ex went a little nutty when he sold the house and got remarried to me. This was in 2003. She started a court battle. There was no way she was going to get custody of the girls, so she had them make false allegations of abuse against their father, me, and my three children, many, many times to teachers, counselors, lawyers, social workers, DCFS, police officers. Obviously, for the sake of the safety of them and my children we had to send them to go live with her. We thought the court would understand, but they did not. And nothing was done about the false allegations. As a matter of fact everyone tried to cover up the fact that, that was the reason we sent them to stay with her and get the court documents stricken from the records. When the youngest recanted, they ignored her. Needless to say both girls are very disturbed. We can't trust them (mainly the mother) in our home. We have hired 3 to 4 psychologists and they tell us to walk away. They say if we see the girls only do it in a public place and get receipts to prove you were there. It is very difficult to see them now since the mother has moved half way across the country.
Anyway, I am wondering if anyone has ever dealt with this and if anyone has any suggestions. Is it fixable?