Need some advice!
My husband and I have a 19month old daughter, he has a daugther that is 17 yrs. old. When we told her we were expecting she was excited, as soon as we knew it was going to be a baby girl, she picked up her cellphone and called biomom and cried and cried. My husband and I looked at her in complete shock, she told her mom how upset she was that she wouldn't be the "girl" anymore. As I said, our daughter is 19months old now and the 17yr. old has seen her 3 times, she's stopped coming over on weekends and stopped calling her dad. Some time ago, we spoke to biomom on the phone and she said "well, what do you expect? she's ur little girl and now you go and have another child -- you better not think this absolves you of any money support for her!" Needless to say, we are STUPIFIED! We continue to pay support and for parochial school, but she will be 18 yrs. old in March 09. My thought is to finish support at that point, there is no order stating that we have to continue after she graduates h.s. -- this will happen in about 3 months. He's tried to call, write letters and her mom has cut off her cell phone and says that he has to only speak to her from now on..no more talking one on one with his daughter. HUH???? I think she needs some counseling. Any thoughts?