How Long do I Give Him?
My boyfriend, who my son and I have been living with for a year and a half, thinks that my son, who is disabled, should be an angel like his healthy daughter was as a toddler - I confirmed with her mother that she was a good toddler. My boyfriend is short fused when it comes to my son crying at night and hitting his daughter. I tried to explain to him that this is a fase that most two year olds go through.
Anyway, to make a long story short, he don't have as much patients with my son as he does with his daughter and really has not done much to bond with my son, then wonders why he screams when he picks hum up. I talk to him about the situation, but I am not sure how long I should give him before we leave. I have been in the situation where I was unliked by my stepmother and I don't want my son to go through that too.
Also, what can I do to help my boyfriend bond with my son and maybe just one day love him?