damned if we do, damned if we don't
So this is a little tiff about the dentist, but examplary of most issues we have with BM.
Whatever we do, BM will bag it to the skids, we can't win for loosing..
When we don't take SD to the dentist, it's because we are tight with our money, evil SM (moi) wants to spend it all on herself, FDH has never cared about the kids enough, radada..
However, when we do take SD for a check-up, we are still in trouble.. BM was going to do that herself! How dare we take her, BM has always been left to do everything herself, what's FDH trying to prove, radarada..
Last year FDH backed of and left it to BM, she was so angry that FDH suggested taking her, so ok..
I guess you guys won't be surprised that SD did not see a dentist that year.
So this year FDH just took SD himself, her dental hygiene shouldn't have to suffer because of struggles. Last week SD had a check-up and clean, also some X-rays. All is good, we are happy. But not BM. She has now made her own appointment for SD and so SD is going for another clean and check-up next week. This makes no sense and SD knows it, but good daughter she is she just goes along with it. Pfff
Well, better too much attention for teeth then not enough :-)
Ok that is my vent for the day..