My SD is getting married in Sept. We have never gotten along, and she is getting financial help from my DH for her wedding. She and her sisters never really have liked me. They do not get along with their BM either, but I get along with my SS. My DH and I have been married almost six years, but have been together almost ten. I am unsure if I should attend her wedding, since my DH is helping foot the bill. It is a destination wedding, and he wants me there. I was thinking of going to the destination and not the ceremony. Then, I was thinking of being the bigger person and just keeping my distance. Then, I was considering not going at all, but I have already been excluded from things due to their stupidity. My DH does not stand up to them, but states he will say something to her before the big day about me attending. Ideas? Thoughts?