Missed sgrandkids bdays, DS6 sick_what now?
My stepgrandkids(SGS8 & SGS2) birthdays are both in January and have both passed. DH and I forgot about them. DS6 has an aggessive cancer as I have discussed here before and was hospitalized for a fever and infection week before last, was undergoing radiation, chemo and other things last week. Their birthdays just fell of of the radar.
I have pulled out some gifts for them (I keep a stock of new things that I buy on sale plus regifts in a closet to keep costs down and for situations like this.) DH wants to take them to their apartment in the suburbs today.
DS6 had radiation and chemo yesterday, woke up from 4am to 5:30am vomiting this morning and is home with me. I don't think he will need to go back to the hospital today but we never know. I really would like DH to stick close because of this.
SS29 and babymama haven't shown a lot of interest, babymama none, in my very sick son's condition. Not the kids fault I know. My better spirit says wrap up the gifts, let DH take them to his grandsons and call him if something major happens. The other part says these kids can wait some more. SS29 and babymama are pretty immature so they won't understand our priorities.
Any thoughts here?