marriage problems

tobilynn71January 18, 2013

my husband of 13yrs he is 43 and i am 41 are having issues with sex and him being affectionate we have talked on many occasions and he assures me he is in love with me and does not want a divorce,he has past issues with me like getting mad when he wants to go out with his friend and not getting a job and i have changed those things but he still has not changed i know he is not having an affair he is home all the time. i cry to him and tell him i need his attention and he says ok but nothing ever changes we have sex once a month and last night i told him he is not satisfying me sexually and he said im sorry i honestly dont know how to feel he says he dont want a divorce and is in love with me and is attracted to me but i am so lonely and crave his attention he says he gives it to me but he dont i dont know what to do also he said he has changed when we met he changed and now he is himself again how is that fair to me please help

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And this is in the Step-family forum why exactly?? There is a marriage forum for stuff like this. Please though...a little punctuation and capitalization would make it easier to read...

    Bookmark   January 18, 2013 at 2:42PM
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