Cohabitation vs marriage
Here is a new thread on whether it's better to live with your lover or marry him/her.
For me, I want neither - I want to have conjugal priveleges and then send him home. I want to be able to call him on the phone, when I'm snuggled beneath the covers, and talk dirty to him! I can't do that if he lives with me, now can I?
I want to bake cookies and invite him (or someone else) over to share them with me - I can't do that if he lives with me, can I?
I think you can see where this is going - Michael has the right idea - love 'em and send 'em on their way! It's not like they won't come back!! LOL