getting help from fiance
Ok...new to this forum---old timer to auto forum. My fiance recently moved in together. We had an argeement since I worked nights and paid the rent/bills and car notes plus cooked and vaccuumed that she'd dust/do bathrooms/laundry/dishes and buy groceries from her check.
She's has yet to clean anything(4 months, I've done it all,work 12 hr shifts 5 days a week), she hasn't bought groceries in 3 weeks and her clothes are still on the bedroom floor since we moved in.
Everytime I try to calmly discuss getting some help she thinks I'm starting a fight and gets mad and refuses to help. We connect really well emotionally and have a blast in what little time off together we have. She only works about 6 hrs a day at a desk job and doesn't budge from the tv at night. I work on class 8 trucks all night--so I'm not the most motivated to do more labor at home.
She didn't use to be like this...what can do to get a little help or is it too late? Sorry for the rant but I'm at my ropes end.