This is it - divorce is final on Wednesday
Wow, I went from being married 23 years to divorced in just under 4 months. It's funny how things change. When we first separated I was in shock and so devastated. Now it's months later and I can't say that I'm elated, but life does go on. There have been so many changes, good, bad, and indifferent.
The best thing - feeling free from having to compensate for his underfunctioning and especially excited over the changes I'm planning for my life.
The worst - oddly enough it wasn't losing my beloved. It was having to give my girls to him (lab and english setter) and having to put my house up for sale.
The change that feels the weirdest - having to change my last name after 23 years. I elected to use a favorite family name and did not go back to my maiden name.
Just thought I'd share this with you all.