I have some questions, friends. If you've been dating someone and discovered something about them that made you have pause about the relationship continuing and had to think about that... how long do you think is an acceptable time to ask them to wait while you think it over?
A day? A week? Longer?
Second question. If you've been dating someone exclusively, and you've been taking time to think things over, and your boy/girl friend calls you because they are in the vet's office and their pet is dying (a pet you have cared for yourself)... do you think it's appropriate to offer to help them?