What's wrong with men ?
Three ladies, myself included, went to a dance at the weekend. All of us can dance, and I teach it so am reasonably good at it. It was supposedly for older singles, but except for a male friend who knew us, who just happened to be there, and who shared himself with us all in turn, we sat out supporting the wall the whole evening. Being watched by plenty of unattached males also supporting the wall, but in standing position. We are none of us excessively fat, or ugly, all in the same age group as the onlookers, and we had all showered before going out and put on plenty of deodorant and all of us of friendly disposition, so why weren't we asked to dance? We weren't the only wallflowers - there were dozens of women around, but these men just stood around looking like stunned mullets. Why do they go to dances if they don't want either to dance or to socialise?