I am a 39 year old single male and a good friend of mine is trying to set me up with his 27 year old female cousin. He gave me her number and we have been talking on the telephone for the past month and have gone out to dinner.
Yesterday she made some comments that got me to thinking and wondering
1. she said she had dated a couple of people who were 35
years old and they were set in their ways and didn't
want to do the things that she wanted to do and she
realized that she had nothing in common with them
2. We were talking about a 34 year old cousin of mine who
got married 2 years ago and just recently had a child
and she her comments on that made it sound like there
was something wrong by him getting married and just
having a child at 34.
I don't know if she knows that I am 39 years old or not since I don't know what her cousin told her. She knows that I am around the same age as her cousin as he is 1 year younger than me. We have never discussed our ages in any of the conversations that we have had.
I really like this girl and I would like to see how things develop but her comments have gotten me to thinking that I may be too old for her in her eyes. I am not set in my ways and I like doing all kinds of things. I wonder what she will think when she finds out that I have never been married and I am fast approaching 40 years old.
Off the topic but I just thought of it.... why do people think there is something odd about someone being nearly 40 years old and never been married?
Your thoughts and suggestions are appreciated.