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Here are some links that might help you.
You will find some tips to make it all look faboulous.
Painting oak cabinets a cream color Gardenweb Feb. 2008
Gardenweb Painting Oak Questions on April 2010
(In this link you will see photos)
Concealing Oak Grain when painting Mar 2010
A great link with Paint Questions non gardenweb but helpful too.
FKB (finished Kitchen Blog Gardenweb)
Painted oak kitchen a bittersweet chocolate color
Have You gel Stained? A GW post
After creative painting of oak
Lastly there is a fairly good search index on GW. It is
hard to narrow it down but if you put in Paint Oak you
might find a few more past posts that can help you out.