Poor Old Hef!

kayjones

Dumped 4 days before his wedding. Media story is that he was sleeping with her best friend, too, and she 'no longer felt comfortable' with the situation. WHAT?!!!!!!!!!!

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Jasdip

You mean he can still get it up?

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Chemocurl zn5b/6a Indiana

The link below puts another spin on things though, making it sound like she found someone better.

Here is a link that might be useful: Hugh Hefner Dumped Days Before Wedding

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User

And I thought this one was 'til death do us part.'

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vannie

Hey!! Go for the $$$. How much longer can he last? You found somebody else? Fidelity doesn't seem to be a requirement here. LOL Wonder why that was even newsworthy. Who cares? How silly.

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dotmom

No fool like an old fool

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ruthieg__tx

I'm sure Hef is smart enough or wise enough to insure that the bimbo's don't get his money......Other than that, what do they get out of it except notoriety and Playboy coverage...

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marie_ndcal

Because his daughter is in control of Playboy Magazine etc, I wonder really how much he is control of his money. I am sure his DD watches everything.

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lazypup

Shes marrying Hef and she thinks he would be true to her??? Even a real Blonde knows better than that, where did this Bimbo come from??

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suzieque

That man is just plain creepy.

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kayjones

In an interview with Holly and Kendra, both stated he uses a "relationship-enhancement" drug - oooohhhhh and UCK!!!!!

All the females he's been with became famous and left him wondering 'what happened'. He stated, in an interview I saw last night, that he's still 'not sure what happened' between him and Crystal Harris.

I wanted to say to him: 'let me see if I can help you understand what happened' - here we go, and I promise to talk slow so you can grasp what I'm saying: She wanted to USE YOU to get where she wanted to go ie FAME. As soon as her name became familiar to the public, she screwed you over. She is no worse nor better than Barbie Benton, Holly Madison, Kendra Wilkinson, etal. Now, do you understand?!'

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marygailv

He'll just latch onto another bottle blond with enhanced breasts.

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User

Couple of questions: WHAT did she expect? How old is this guy now, 99?? I agree with whoever said, how silly. This is definitely not newsworthy. It is sad, however.

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sleeperblues

As to the "relationship enhancing" drugs, so many men are using them these days. I know, because almost every man I do an anesthetic on over the age of 50 has it on his med list. The biggest rise of STDs these days is seniors, in part because those drugs have allowed for that kind of intimacy.

There's just something about the way HH looks that makes me think he's not all mentally there. He pretty much would have to be senile to think that any of those "barbies" want him for anything else other than fame.

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suzieque

He doesn't care what they want him for. They feed his ego and satisfy his urges. That's all he wants women for anyway, IMO.

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Jasdip

oh sleeper, that's so sad (and scary!)

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Chi

Yeah, I'm pretty sure both sides are well aware of what they're getting out of the arrangement. There aren't any illusions here. She gets financial security, he gets a sexy companion for his remaining years. They're both adults and not hurting anyone else so I don't understand why people are so disgusted over it.

I'll go against what everyone else is saying and state that I don't think he's an idiot or she's a bimbo. I think they're both intelligent enough to know what they want out of a relationship and seek out a partner who can provide it. It's the same process everyone else who is looking for a partner takes, whether they'll admit it or not.

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matti5

I am sure within the next few days he will have another bimbo attached to his arm and his wallet. He's creepy!

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Kathsgrdn

People are disgusted because she could be his granddaughter, or even possibly great-granddaughter...which is just gross. I wouldn't date him and I'm almost 50.

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Chi

As long as they're over 18 and have the capacity to fully consent, who cares how old they are?

It just baffles me how people throw around awful labels like bimbo without knowing anything about these people. You don't know their life, or their story, or how they grew up or anything about them. I'm not talking specifically about this girl but every "bimbo" that has ever been labeled based on a glance on the street or a random gossip article.

The name-calling and harsh judgements are purely on their age, hair color and breast size. If Hef's fiance had been a chubby 60 year old woman, no one would have called her a bimbo even though she's just as likely to only want the money as any other woman. As someone who has similarly been labeled based on appearance without any regard to actual intellectual capability, motivation or personality traits, I find it really sad.

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liljunkr

chi83 I'm of the same opinion.

RICH and FAMOUS is without a doubt going to get attentions and the coat tail riders get those attentions , good and bad they become famous too. Hef really is a very nice man. Sweet kind and generous. He tries to make the beautiful women around him happy and he has also helped many others not so beautiful and healthy people. He has made major charitable contributions to many foundations. His business sense was always good. SEX sells and he made a thriving business with that premise and all that goes with it at the centerfold. So what his business was a pleasure to him? How much would everyone of us love to have jobs we enjoy as much as Hef did his?
As for his present lifestyle, the women he chooses to spend time with and money on and the news coverage he gets. It is his choice and he has all the right in the world to do what he pleases as long as his pleasures are with consenting adult women. Those women know exactly what they are doing and I'm sure he does as well even if he chooses to believe otherwise. His love for them is real and he hopes to find a love from one of them that is real. Okay that may be considered foolish but not in anyway is it wrong to love and desire to make someone happy.
He is news worthy just as much as Howard Hughes and Michael Jackson were and other eccentric multi-million/billionaires are, just because people all around the world, including many members here GW and KT want to know what is happening in the lives of the RICH and FAMOUS.

LIL

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kayjones

Crystal just stated on People website that Hugh Hefner had lots of women he hung with and she knew it would continue after marriage and she wasn't comfortable with it.

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jannie

I think it's ironic he finally "aged out" of the empire he created. I would never date a geezer like him, and I'm nearly 60. (Held together by good skin, healthy diet, lots of exercise and fresh air.)

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cynic

Dictionary
bim÷bo
nounâÂÂ/ÃÂbimbÃÂ/âÂÂ
bimbos, plural
An attractive but empty-headed young woman, esp. one perceived as a willing sex object

Perhaps that's why nobody would call a chubby 60 year old woman a bimbo. Golddigger, yes, bimbo, no.

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Chi

Oh, I've seen plenty of older women labeled as bimbos as well. Most people don't consult a dictionary for a precise definition before handing out their insults. Thanks for providing it though. It illustrates my point perfectly. :)

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jannie

I still think it's "karma" that a man who promoted men using women for sex without marrying them, and now it looks like he'll end up alone.

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