Introduction and some feedback

MmmbeeerApril 11, 2013


This post was edited by Mmmbeeer on Sat, Oct 18, 14 at 22:09

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Don't show it with a larger table than what comfortably fits.

A house without a formal dining room isn't a big deal to me; it is what we actually chose. But, you will see this debated a lot on the building forum and other places. The fact is, you have what you have. So, sell what you've got. Set it up properly and make it appeal to the right buyer (young families/young couples like open concept and don't particularly care for formal dining room).

    Bookmark   April 11, 2013 at 9:06PM
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I should also add that we are the "little sister" in a neighborhood of many larger homes so we feel our home would probably appeal to starter families or "older folks" like us who are downsizing.

    Bookmark   April 11, 2013 at 9:07PM
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Thanks, kirkhall. That was fast! Lol

    Bookmark   April 11, 2013 at 9:13PM
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I agree with kirkhall... you have what you have. Show it off to it's best advantage!

That said, no dining room would be a deal-breaker for me. We use ours too much to be without one!

    Bookmark   April 11, 2013 at 10:59PM
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Around here, houses are expected to have a formal dining room regardless of how you use it.

If you have access to a six seater table,I'd probably go with that instead of the four seater. You want to make the area look usable for a family if that is who would most likely be buying your house.

    Bookmark   April 12, 2013 at 12:03AM
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I think the dining area looks fine! We don't have kids so a small area is fine with us, and ours is about that size. We have an Ikea table that expands to seat 6 but normally 4. I would not put a larger table in your area it might make the room look crowded, it looks well staged now.

    Bookmark   April 12, 2013 at 12:10AM
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If a 6 seat table makes the room look small I would not do it. As for what people expect on the last home we sold, we had a formal dining room, but we did not have a separate breakfast room (this was a higher end home for our area). We did have a small breakfast bar between the kitchen and living room. Anyway, this was a deal breaker for a number of people who saw the house. We had more negative feedback from that than anything else. However, it was not anything we could do anything about...except to compete on price which we ended up doing.

    Bookmark   April 12, 2013 at 12:14AM
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I'm guessing the area is open into the living room as well. If so then is it possible if somebody had a large gathering to extend into that area? If so and if the size is consistent with the size of the house then I think you'd be fine. It looks like there is plenty of space from your pic, but those could be deceiving.

    Bookmark   April 12, 2013 at 8:26AM
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Leave the table, it is what it is and you don't want the space to feel cramped. Let people imagine they could fit a table for 8, don't point out to them that 6 is as good as it gets.

I am another one that will not buy a house without a distinct, formal dining room, as well as an eat-in kitchen, but there are many that just don't care if the house contains a separate dining room.

    Bookmark   April 12, 2013 at 9:39AM
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Personally I think it depends upon the size of the house. If it's a 4 bedroom house, then you could potentially have a family of 5 (like me!) and I would look at your picture and think - we can't even fit our entire family in there - not good. If it's a three BR house, then most likely (of course there are exceptions) you are selling to a family of 4 or less and I think it's fine.

    Bookmark   April 12, 2013 at 10:08AM
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You might want to take a couple of additional photos from different angles and post them on the decorating forum. The folks there are excellent at suggesting adjustments to maximize a space.

    Bookmark   April 12, 2013 at 11:21AM
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I think a formal dining room is of limited value to certain kinds of couples, particularly those that don't entertain and/or don't have any local family. In high-transient-population neighborhoods, I have almost always found the formal dining room converted to a makeshift home office. It really depends on your buyer.

I'd not worry too much about the lack of having one. You can't really change it at this point, just market your home for what it is...perfect for a couple and/or small family and/or relocated person. Might even be perfect for a single mom/single dad, and lets not forget that this makes up a HUGE percentage of the population these days.

I personally think your picture gives off the "low maintenance" vibe, which can be terrific for the right buyer. Just make sure the rest of your pictures 'match' that same vibe/theme or you'll end up attracting the wrong kinds of buyers who would be otherwise turned off to learn you didn't have a dining room.

    Bookmark   April 12, 2013 at 1:36PM
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lyfia--you are correct, the dining area does open up into the living area.

Mamattorney--that is a good point. We have a three bed/two bath home. I do agree that if this was a four bedroom home that expectations for a larger dining area would be warranted.

TheRedHouse--I didn't even consider the decorating forums as I just found out these even existed a month or so ago. Thanks!

I appreciate the thoughts of all of you who weighed in. The last home sale we had was very fast, but we did have two different sets of older home buyers tell us they loved everything about the home but wouldn't purchase any home without a formal dining room. That kitchen, however, had a considerably larger eat in kitchen where you could comfortably have a table set for eight in the room. I think I'm leaning toward the idea of keeping it to seating for four and "showing off" that extra space. I'm thinking just having the table and chairs out (and, of course, we always include room dimensions on our info sheet and online) will be enough for the majority of buyers to see that you could fit a larger table in the area, if they really wanted to. Thanks for all your insight!

    Bookmark   April 12, 2013 at 5:14PM
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To me, your 4-seat table looks like it could probably seat 6 - therefore, a table for 6 wouldn't be a problem. (Even if it would be.)

As an older person, I'd also like a formal dining room -- but that's a new thing for me as we'd never have 'dining room' parties with the kids around.

Best of all worlds? A dining room that's separate but not 'formal'

    Bookmark   April 19, 2013 at 4:14PM
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I really think that table is perfect, because it looks just a smidge too small for the room- so you look at it, assume it's a 6 person table with four chairs, and viola, your dining area is huge!

This kind of layout is ideal to me, I have no use for a formal dining room.

    Bookmark   April 20, 2013 at 4:09PM
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Sweeby and Cocontom, thanks for the feedback. Every bit helps!

    Bookmark   April 20, 2013 at 10:11PM
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It looks lovely as is. I would require a house with a dining room as we do the family holiday and special occasion meals with 11 family members and more expected. However, our recently married son is house hunting, and he would go for your house in a minute.

    Bookmark   April 21, 2013 at 12:24PM
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