I try not to judge and I usually keep my opinions to myself about other peoples lives.
BUT, we have been helping a friend whose 25 year old daughter was diagnosed with cancer, the daughter has a little 4 year old girl (not married and father has disapeared) and living with an unemployed father of 3 small kids. My friend has paid many of their bills and we have tried to help out. She is on welfare and pregnant, the baby was still born and extremely deformed. They could not pay for the funeral so we tried to get them help.
The unemployed boyfriend is a lousy example of a father and today we were told that she is pregnant again.
I am ready to say to this person that I am not helping any more when you obviously do not care enough to help your self and your kids.
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH, I simply do not understand this destructive and demeaning behavior. I told my friend to stop making payments for the lazy boyfriend and maybe he will get a job.
am I just getting too selfish in my old age, or am I just fed up with users that will continue to take, and take, and take??