Dr. Sears Site
I've used the Sears' books with my children, and they have some really sound advice.
To back up, I have a 26 year old son, and used the Dr. Spock book. I remember feeling uncomfortable with some of Spock's advice, and now in hindsight regret using his techniques.
I currently have a 5 year old son, and 3 year old daughter, and feel the Sears' are more in touch with the natural needs of small children. They don't administer fad advice, they look through children's eyes, and believe if children are educated/nurtured according to developmental ability they will become secure, and happy children/adults. I agree. While it would be difficult to follow some of their bonding advice while working full time, a person can make adjustments accordingly.
Having children is the hardest job any of us will ever have, and the most important. Might as well look at all available parenting options!
I hope you find the link useful: