Am I too overprotective?
I have 2 daughters, 8(3rd grade) & 5(Kinder). They have this bus driver that is just a witch in my opinion.
I had asked to have the bus stop moved closer to the house(it's just a smidgen under a mile) since winter was coming & she deliberately started dropping them on the side of the road where there is no sidewalk(not good with snow coming) because it disturbed her cigarette break at the end of the day. So I had them put it back where it was.
Now my daughters were talking & I heard my oldest telling the youngest to be quiet, it was a secret.
When I pressed, I find out this driver had "talked" to Sara(the youngest)about being rude to another child. Then she told Sara she'd be suspended from the bus if she did it again(I've received no notices of problems). And proceeded to tell Sara she needed to be more like her sister(Sara all ready has a learning disability & some self-esteem problems).
Next she told the girls she'd give Sara a second chance & not to tell their mom because it would be a secret.
Needless to say I was so mad I could have thrown a fit, but I called her supervisor & was told that was their best driver & he insinuated my children were liars.
I'm in a quandry over what to do, any idea's? Am I being to overprotective? I feel like she is teaching my children it's okay to lie to me.