Grandma crosses the line with Mom (ME)
My mom, from the moment she found out that I was pregnant with my daughter, has put her two cents in regardless of my feelings. I had a bad breakup with my ex and my mom was there to help me. I moved home with her and my baby girl. I worked at night so she would care for my daughter until I got out of work. My daughter is 5 now and I am happily married and my son is 20 months old. My ex spends only a couple of hours once a week with her and on certain occasions, stays the night with him. My mom goes nuts when I tell her!! She starts yelling at me and tells me that if anything happens to her grandbaby she would never forgive me. I don't like the idea of my girl going with her dad, but it's not my choice. I love my baby and if she wants to go with her dad, I wont stop her. He is for the most part careful with her. He would never let her be harmed. I wish my mom would back off and let me raise my children the way I see fit. Can some one give me ideas on how to handle my mom?