spoiled 19 yr old
I need help dealing with my boyfriends spoiled 19 year old daughter. She is an only child and raised by her father, The problem is she doesn't know how or wont deal with life. She wants to be an adult but acts like a child. If things don't go her way she starts to cry and have fits all the time. He caves to her just to keep her happy. He is not helping her by doing this in anyway. He let her boyfriend move into the house with her just to keep her home at night. He knows that if he didn't let this happen she would be sleeping at a different place every night because the boyfriend has no place to live. The daughter nor the boyfriend have a job and my boyfriend supports them both. The daughter does go to college part time but does nothing else. She is always asking her dad for money and he gives it to her just to keep her happy.The problem is she is starting to come between his and mine relationship.I have 3 kids of my own ages 22, 18 and 14. My 22 year old has been on her own since she was 19 my 18 year old works and my 14 year old is a A student in school. I look at the way his daughter uses him and it drives me crazy. I don't know if I should say something or just go with it and hope that one day she grows up. She tells him all the time that he never does anything with her and that makes him tell me that he has to do something with her but as soon as she gets money from him shes gone. Any help with how to deal with this mess would be helpful.