Mother-in-law being inappropriate
Hi.My first post in this section here.Just wanted to get a few opinions.
My husband and 14 year old daughter went to visit his mother without me recently,and when they returned my daughter was upset.
In private she told me she had gone to the bathroom and she heard my mother-in-law ask my husband if she was still a virgin.
I find this inappropriate.
1)How is it any of her business?
2) Even if she wasn't why would my husband know? What girl is going to tell their father,"Daddy I had sex!"
My husband tried to say she was just concerned,but I see no reason she should be.Our daughter is quite shy and doesn't leave the house hardly ever.She has never given us any reason to think she was doing anything.She hasn't even been kissed yet.
I guess I just felt like that was too personal a question for her to be asking.
Any advice or thoughts here on this?