mothers of estranged son
I am looking for advice on how to write a letter to my estranged son, whom I have just learned that he has 1-6 months to live . We have not seen or spoken since the death of my other son almost 5 years ago. we have been estranged for 11 years now and I am at a loss of what to say. He married and has 3 children, whom I also have been told not to contact. His wife was the leading force behind all of this.I am not crying anymore and have up to now come to peace with this. I am pleased, and happy and proud of the way he has done in his life and told me those 5 years ago that he is happy. So that is my only solace. Hearing of this illness is heart wrenching for me, I feel I should reach out one last time. But also fear the rejection again. I feel the best approach is a letter. If there is someone who could give some guidance of words to use or not use. I have been dweling on this for 10 days and still have no idea as to where to begin in this letter to him. Any ideas?