there is light...
Here is a positive message for struggling parents.
My 24 year old daughter drove 30ks to visit me today, pick me up, take me back to her place (30ks) gave me a lovely afternoon tea. Then drove me back home again. I said I would hop on the train but she said "Mum, you drove me all over the place all those years, let me do this for you ".
I could have cried ! They do realize EVENTUALLY what you do for them !
She is a star.