Messy bedroom - standards!
My daughter is coming home from college in a few days. She is 19.
Bathroom is tidy when she is away....when she comes back, hair on sink, makeup all over the sink, "stuff" everywhere. In her bedroom, clothes on floor, increasing mess.
Me....the mother.. ask nicely "could you please keep the bathroom tidy". Response.....argument, "you are obsessed with cleanliness", amongst other increasingly cranky words.
Can you imagine this scenario ?
How can I handle this impending stress, for me, better? How can I lay down the law, with authority, and have harmony in the household?