grown daughter doesnt want to take care of son
Hi, I am new here and could really use some advice. I have a 21 year old daughter that I let move back home with her 18 month old son. She has no job, does not seem willing to find a job and now she has decided she doesn't like being a Mom anymore. She refuses to stay here and pretty much lives out of her car and goes from friends to friends house. I have been keeping her son 4 days a week and his other grandmother keeps him the other 3 days. I have some health issues I have to deal with soon which will make it hard for me to carry my grandson or do any lifting, but I dont trust my daughter to take care of him and when she does stay here, hardly ever, she does not help out at all. No dishes, cleaning , etc. Just sleeps or talks on the phone. I buy all his food, diapers etc to make sure he eats decent. I would never put him in foster care. Is there any help I can get in daycare etc. temporarily while I recover from surgery?