Have any of you (or anyone you know) ever had trouble conceiving. Besides fertility meds and things of that sort, did anything else help the couple to successfully conceive a child? My friend has been trying for a year to get pregnant. Her and her dh have a child already (that was not planned at the time) so they are going crazy about not being able to have another. They have been told the "it will happen when your not trying" thing and I was wondering if any of you had any other advice. They have tried ovulation kits, no smoking, no caffeine, and only having sex every other day. No success. Any ideas??