Adult son evicted
My 22-year-old bipolar son will probably be evicted from the Y-failure to mop his room.
I let him stay at my house about a year ago, against my instinct.He broke all the rules he had agreed to: stopped school, work, the day program, abused his sister, brother afraid to have friends over, broke doors, bashed walls, knives, smoke alarms, burning things, gun video games at 4 a.m., off meds, trashed his room, hard alcohol, demands to go to the ER for "can't see" etc... nocturnal, rants of F***Group homes are out for now....been trying for years, and still he is not on a list...
I got him out-it was VERY HARD, and told him he could not stay at my home again.
I did get him on SSI and he got himself on food stamps.
My instinct is to stick w/ my "no" but still that nagging voice of "since he is mentally ill, I should take him..he is needy, and I am his Mom."