Okay-so rent and disrespect
Helpful people on this forum have confirmed what I have known all along--that I really need to charge rent to my 2 adult children. In the past I have discussed this with my husband, as I had to do this as soon as I started my first job at 15. He did not. I was just wondering, for those of you who have done this, how a figure was arrived at? (it would go into accounts for them)
On a side note re: my previous post--the mess doesn't bother me, as I just shut the door, but the dirt does. When you can write your name in the dust and there are cobwebs and dead bugs, I draw the line.
My other question had to do with the consequences of disrespect. Things have been said to me that I would NEVER have said to my mother. It's very hurtful, but how to end it? TIA Karen