How do you know when you're done?
Hi everyone! My husband and I have two daughters, 4 and 15 months. When I was pregnant with our second I was completely sure that two was enough. My husband was going to go in and have a vasectomy, but I told him to wait until our youngest was one. Now she is and *sigh*... I just don't know! In some ways I'd like to have another, but in other ways I think two children is great. I just don't feel that satisified, "done" feeling. I'm sure that doesn't make much sense. :) When I think of my hubby getting the vasectomy, I just feel so darn sad. Is that normal? I would have thought I would feel nothing but relief.
I did hope that someday I would have a little boy. I have two wonderful, beautiful, smart daughters who I treasure everyday. I would never, ever trade them for anything. I just wanted to say that, lol.
I think I'm just looking for anyone else who has a similar feeling or something. Or some advice. Or a kick in the pants. :D
Thank you for anything you can offer!