Ignored by adult children
I raised my daughters to be independent. However, I did not think that independence would cause them to totally forget that I exist. I have the luxury of seeing my children on holidays and if the oldest needs a last minute baby sitter when the other grandparents are not available. Silly me I worked diligently along with their dad to see that they had a great home, everything they needed and then some. Always putting their wants and needs before mine. So I guess my payback is ignoring me. I think that I could die and they would not notice unless a holiday was near. I have many valuable belongings to leave behind when the good Lord takes me away. I am thinking of making sure that these family heirlooms go to a museum instead of my selfish daughters.
Anyone have any thoughts?