My husband and I are in the process of having our house built. The home comes with knotty alder cabinets in a stain of your choice. I like the dark walnut stain as shown. But, I've always wanted a white kitchen until I saw these! I guess I feel like I'd be crazy to paint over such nice cabinets and that's basically what's deterring my decision. The builder said they could do white painted cabinets if I chose. My question is what is your opinion the cabinets pictured? Also, we have a 4 month old and I've read concerns about white cabinets getting pretty dirty with kids. What has been your experience with this? Thanks to all!