A newlywed needs help
I know someone who is not yet 25 and a newlywed. She married a controlling person who thinks the house should be immaculate. She is not a neat person, to put it mildly. On the other hand, he is a neat freak. She said that if something drops, she doesn't even notice it. She can look past the mess in a room as though it isn't even there.
How can I help her to be more neat? The control issues are a different story and one that will have to be addressed. But for the time being how can you teach someone to notice a mess?