Help for those who live with pack rats
Is there a book to give help for those who live with pack rats? Not to stop them, but to reach a state of acceptance rather than resistance. I have come to the conclusion this morning that I need to back off and stop trying to stem the flow of "stuff" as long as I can keep it out of the house. I need peace with myself and the hoarder. I need to get my mental state to accept the way things are as long as the mess is not in my face. Does this make any sense at all? Help. My nerves are shot.
(Please don't tell me to talk with him or suggest a book for him. He's happy. I'm not.)