Very important Christmas - Need gift ideas for husband
First an explanation:
My husband and I have been going through the tax audit from hell for 3 years. They are taking us to the cleaners. Then my husband's mother became terminally ill. I kept running our business so he could spend the last 3 months with his mother in another state. My husband is a good man under a lot of stress. He saw his mother being cared for with compassion by a nurse. She took advantage of a seriously depressed man. He at one point was suicidal. The stress has been immense on both of us.
I have forgiven him for his affair as my husband, in his right state of mind, would never have done this. We are back together and working through this mess. I don't want to know how I am making excuses for him. I can't say I wouldn't have done the same thing, so please no advise in this area.
We are, in a way, starting over in our 29 year marriage. I really want to give him something meaningful. Does anyone have any ideas? Thank you in advance.