No sex drive
About a year ago i discovered an email on my husbands computer to another woman telling her he fantisize about her. He is now 47 . I thought up to this point i had the perfect marrage. We saw a councillor and worked out thhings. We still love each other. The problem now is that i am the one initiating sex. We are up to once every two to 3 weeks. Is this normall? I have discussed this with him and he answered that he is getting older cannot perform like he used to. I am worried about this as i know he is looking at porn. I do feel fustrated because he is the one falling asleep within 5 minutes and turning his back on me. Any suggestions what i should do and where to look?