Help! my wife is flipping out! she gets very upset with me for induldging in a little porn. I think that she's being really silly! Every guy I know watches it! The other day we got into a huge fight and she got drunk and called me every name in the book and hurt me deaply with her words all over finding a porn site on the computer!!!! I love her but I'm really fed up! She ordered some porn dvd's and I won't watch them with her because she will go on and on about how ugly, fat,old she feels. I've never said this and would rather watch alone because of this drama! I get all my men's magazines out of the house asap as to not upset her when they come in the mail. I'm not trying to hide all this from her just don't want her upset, I don't have a choice but to be less than honest! Now she doesn't want to end my porn subscription because she thinks this will make me want to cheat, or get more excited about it because I am hidding it! She has even accused me of being addicted. Then she will do this personallity switch, and says it is only because I'm hidding it? What choice do I have with her self counciousness??? Help! She's normally a good wife but how do I make this stop? I've told her she needs counciling for the things she accused me of when she was drunk, I don't think she means it but it was very hurtfull. What do I need to do to make her a normal wife when it comes to a guys need/right for porn, and not say such hurtfull things to me.