Help me !!!..I've had an affair and now don't know what to do
I've been in a marriage for 19 years ..we've had
Problems from day 1..Ive never found my husband
Attractive and 6 months ago got involved with another man
..he now wants me to leave my husband for him.
My husband is a good honest man and doesn't deserve this .
I have two daughters 17 &8..I asked my husband for
A divorce a few weeks ago which hasn't gone down
Too well with the family ..my husband has been working away in
Another country for 3 years but we meet every 6-9 weeks .due to financial difficulties I can't move to the country he's placed in. To be with him.
The man that I'm involved with has had 3 failed marriages and done time for drug dealing ..he lost his fianc� 7 years ago to cancer ..since he's found me he's been given a new lease of life ..I know he loves me and I love him too but I don't know whether to give everything up and leave my husband to be with my new man..my daughters could well turn against me ..I hate myself for getting involved and I Really would appreciate any help