wanted to ask just how terrible is it that I have been looking at my husband's email for a few months now. I found a few emails last year right before we were married and before the birth of our baby (figure that timing out) and discovered that he had been email and had called a woman he met at his gym a couple of times. Most of it short and innocent except one email from him read something like 8:00 sharp, won't take no for an answer. He of course who can REMEMBER everything else couldn't remember what this was about. He has a business that he does try to get clients and he says this was his motive, but she had a boyfriend that owned the business he supposedly was targeting for his business but he says he didn't really like the guy that well (from seeing him at the gym I guess) anyway I found it after we were married for a few months in his old email and he acted like I was crazy for "overreacting" and that nothing was going on admitted that maybe it did cross lines and wouldn't "do it" again. I was satisfied with this (especially since I had his email password) but the 8:00 sharp won't take no for an answer thing bothered me and we fought over it for a little while and I finally either had to live with his answer (no proof of anything) or leave with my newborn baby on this evidence that they had spoken and emailed. This woman supposedly has left town with her boyfriend. I have started going to the gym where he goes so at least I might spot her if she is around. He described her to me. so I really don't think she is a threat now, not sure how much of any she really was then but it just has me very suspicious now and if he is doing something he shouldn't (so far just looking at porn pics. his buddies email him) I at least want to know so I can leave with a clear understanding knowledge of the truth!!!
So I looked at his email the other day and saw some pictures of a woman's (privates) and I emailed him something and titled it not a picture of A.W. (p word) but might find interesting anyway. Very dumb of me because this prompted him to change his email password. I can't think of why else on this particular day after all of this time he would up and change it. He must of at least "thought" I might have looked at his email. So I ended up pretending to be him and got the password switched back to what it was. So tomorrow or the next day when he checks his email and tries the new password it will not work, it will be the old one. I'm NOW scared that he will KNOW that I did this. Hoping that he just might think that it didn't go through somehow and then he will just change it again. Hopefully he won't take it any further, if he does, I think I will just come clean and tell him I've been snooping. ORRRR should I hire a hacker to retrieve new password and continue on this snooping path. Need help-probably professional help. Any of you ladies from the other forums--you know the situation, your input is always welcome!!!