Needed big help.

shasha_2006November 24, 2006

Was married around 5 years, Lately my husband had secret affair with others woman, after his found out that woman is only looking for money, and he left her. And return to me.

Is really sad, when he was in love with her, he curse,step,trough hot water to me and lock me in the toilet and everything I did is wrong.Thats the black history I can't forgive him.But now that difficulties is he still know changes,badtemper,always follow his need,and he likes to fight with his friends.I'm confused, I want to go but I dont know where....

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Find a battered women's shelter in your area, they will help you. Yes you are battered, verbally and physically.


    Bookmark   November 24, 2006 at 4:57AM
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Perhaps you could talk to a trusted friend, or family member to help you work out what to do.

Are you in Malaysia ?

    Bookmark   November 24, 2006 at 9:11PM
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Hi Vickey,
Thanks for your advise.

Hi Popi,
Hv spoken to trusted friends, in return she doesnt like to listen any couple problems.I'm alone in Malaysia, have no family's around.
Thanks for your concerned.

    Bookmark   November 25, 2006 at 12:08AM
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I know nothing about your culture or what options you may have, but I wish you the best of luck and hope that you find help and happiness soon.

    Bookmark   November 25, 2006 at 12:28AM
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Hi Carla,

I already make decission, going abroad asap.Even my heart still love him.Just a fate to live Malaysia.I'm biz woman, will stand firm go for it.

    Bookmark   November 25, 2006 at 1:18AM
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Well that was a speedy decision..good luck, hope it works out.


    Bookmark   November 25, 2006 at 2:04AM
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I'm sorry I posted what I did without looking at your background. It probably looked flippant as I'm not sure if resources are as abundent (if available at all) in Malaysia. I hope for the best for you.


    Bookmark   November 25, 2006 at 8:35AM
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