difficulties dealing with long distance
My spouse and I got married a few weeks ago. It was our intention to live and work in the same city but he was unable to secure a job in his domain and was only able to find relevant work to gain experience in a rural area that is hard to access. It takes 16-20 hours to get there unless you fly and then it becomes too expensive. I thought I could deal with the distance as we have in the past for our education once. But due to the remote area he is working in it is very difficult to visit. I can't move there either as I have my own commitments. The good news is his contract is temporary (9 more months). This is adding a whole other layer stress to our new marriage. I am not coping that well emotionally after the high of the marriage and the wonderful honeymoon we had. I find myself depressed and lonely even if I am surrounded by others. When I go out all I see is couples holding hands and happy together. Will it get better with time? Any advice?