how my husband requests sex
whenever my husband asks for sex, he first requests it verbally one way or another "are we having sex tonite?" "am i getting lucky tonite?" etc. this has always been a turnoff for me as all i need is for him to reach for me or touch me and i'll know he wants sex.
i've finally told him this and he says it's only common courtesy to ask for sex like it's a favor to me. which even seems more of a turnoff. who wants a common courtesy request for sex? i told him if he has to ask, the answer is no from now on.
part of this might come from my repressed sexual state and i told him this, too. but fixing my repressed sexual state seems a lot harder to do than for him to merely stop asking verbally for sex.
does anybody else have this problem? thanks, i'm new.