My spouse doesn't care much about me...that's okay because.......
My husband has lost interest in me in MANY ways. Why?? Well it is always my fault...I am too nagging.......too mean......the list could go on and on. What he doesn't "own" is that he precipitates it on many occasions. The truth is, in MANY ways, it is just plain something wrong with HIM. He has no interest in making things better at all. If I bring up anything about our relationship then it is either all in my head or all my fault. He doesn't want to deal with HIS issues and I am TIRED of trying to make things better. The purpose of this posting is for those of us who are trying to slowly move on by first having an "emotional divorce". Until then, they control us in so many ways because we still CARE. For those of us trying to move on let's try this out and see if it helps! I know this may be corney! It is a way for us to realize how much good we have in our lives independent of them. They overshadow so many things in our lives by their lack of compassion, etc. I say NO MORE!!
So today........ I know my husband doesn't care much about me, but that is okay because
1) I had fun today with my kids shopping for school clothes!
2) I am enjoying hearing/watching my kids play together this evening!