Um.. Hi..advice please?
I just got married in May. Im 18. My husband is just turned 21 last week. We're just kids i know. But, I have been emancipated since i was 15, and have done some college, have a steady 9-5 office job and own all of my things (no debt/loans) except for my monthly rent and utilities. He works an oilfield job, and has also done some college. We got married because we just sort of wanted to. I'm not pregnant, neither of us are broke... we just love one another.
Here's my problem:
Every where i go I'm seeing divorce, hatred, and discontent in marriage. Are we gonna turn out like that? How can i make my new marriage work? His mom has been divorced four times. My parents have been together 30 years. It makes me scared because sometimes i feel he doesn't take this marriage seriously..but i really do.