Wacky marriage counselor
If any of you read my other post, "Why do people even bother to get married" you already know the problem - my husband bores me. You have heard the term "bored to tears" well, that's about it.
So yesterday we went to a marriage counselor. I thought she would see us together but she saw us separately. I told her right up front how I felt and she suggested that I find a "lover". I told her our sex life is not the problem, but she said I need an outside person that I can talk to and relate to intellectually, not a love/sex partner.
Don't you think that is weird? Do you think she's testing me? Are they supposed to say things like that??