What would have done??
This is a family matter, but one that is causing some marriage problems. We have a family member that we have had some conflict with the past 6 years, but we still get along and are civil to each other. We recently received a graduation announcement from this family with no note of a graduation party...only the commencemnet announcement. I checked with a few other family members thinking they were having a party later, but they all told us they rc'd an extra note inside the commencement announcement regarding a party. I first thought possibly it fell out when I opened the envelope, but the party note was the size of a post card. I realize this was very possibly an oversight, but seeing that we have had conflicts in the past, I did not feel right calling and asking about it. I sent a card and money to the graduate and we did not attend the party and now these family members are very cold to my husband and I. Did we do the correct thing? Thanks for your input.