DH annoys the living crap outta me!
He doesn't drink (just socially, rarely), play the horses, cheat or do drugs. He treats me fine most of the time, which from what I have seen and heard, is a good average.
So he's a good husband, right? Except that he annoys me until I could pound my head on the wall, on a daily basis. I'm not super sensitive in any other relationships, so I don't think it is me.
We don't really fight much, no big problems with kids, money, in laws, sex, etc - none of the usual things. He just drives me nuts 24/7. It's down to where I try to be where he is not. I don't even know how to talk to him about this - what can I say, stop being the way you are, it's annoying?
How does this play out in marriage and what do the rest of you do to cope?