Marriage isn't easy
I have been married for nearly 10 years and we have a 9 year old daughter. It has been a rough 10 years but it seems better than divorce. I'm sure we have been abusive at time to each other. I'm not sure who is more abusive. -I have given probably as much as I took. I'm 47 and my wife is 39. I don't want a divorce but this isn't working out like a bed of roses either. Isn't this just life?
Usually, I stay downstairs and she stays upstairs and the days usually go by OK.