Thank you for your understanding ...
I wanted to make a second post to thank the people that replied to my first post . ( Yeah - that DOES sound weird ! ) It was about the equality issues - just a few posts down.
I can't thank you all enough for not making me feel foolish for complaining about such a weird thing.
Quote from asolo :
We are pretty bad at taking feminine hints, I'm told.
You made me crack up laughing .... I really needed that laugh ... * high 5 ing ya !*
Being blunt doesn't get me anywhere - neither does bargaining . As I said , I've been near tears & that hasn't helped. Actually - I have a laundry list of things that he does that make me feel smothered. I guess too much of a good thing can even be crippling. I don't see an end in sight - ( maybe I should "threaten" counciling ....!) I just want to thank everyone for your understanding.
Kathy ( Toomuchglass )